Friday, January 16, 2015

Confidence - Ask TPJ

Monday, January 5, 2015

What's Your Word?

I got a text from a good friend the other day about her new year's resolution. She called it her "one-word resolution." Instantly, I laughed because she and I don't talk often, but I do the same thing. I call my word my "theme" for the year. I know, it's not as fancy as the "one-word resolution," but it gets the job done for me.

If you are associated with me, being productive is a mandatory prerequisite to gaining access to my inner court friendships. everyone around me has to be purpose driven. There's no time to walk around aimlessly. Those who lack discipline should probably stop reading this blog now. Unless   discipline is your word for the year,

"Why is having a word for the year so important," one might ask? In a nutshell, here's why:

  • 1 word helps to keep you focused
    • Around here, we like to focus on one goal at a time. 
  • It helps you prioritize. 
    • Having one word helps you determine what is most important. Do you really have time to watch television for hours? Or can you use that time to be more productive?
  • It improves your decision making skills
    • You will be forced to make a decision concerning that impromptu lunch date or research session. 
  • Helps you avoid inconsistent behaviors 
    • If it doesn't revolve around that one word (for the most part) you probably want to avoid doing it. 
  • Provides clarity for your vision
    • If you don't have a vision statement for your life/business, stay tuned next Monday for that blog!
I know, I know, one word is hard to choose, but it is necessary to succeed as a leader in life as well as operating a successful business. Here's some reflection points to help choose the best word to improve your year: 
  • Where are you in your life/business? 
  • Where do you want to be? Short-term? Long-term? 
  • What word will help you work toward that goal? 

My friend shared her word with me for accountability. I use my word as an anchor. No matter where this year takes me, my word will help keep me focused concerning this year's personal and professional goals. So what's your word? Discuss with your mentors, associates, co-workers, and friends. Make sure you come back and share your word with us in the comments! 

Friday, December 19, 2014

The Moment We've ALL Been Waiting For…The Rejuvenation Process

Hello Friends,

I am working on rebranding the blog for 2015! So be on the look out for new blogs every Monday! BUT to hold you off for a bit. My baby, The Rejuvenation Process is available for sale! I will post the links below! IF you have enjoyed the blog, then you will LOVE the book. I am working on the workbook to accompany this book. I am excited! I hope you are too! Happy Holidays.

Love, Ask TPJ

The Rejuvenation Process buy here!
The Rejuvenation Process (eBook) Available December 25, 2014!

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Fight: Winning the Battles That Matter Most Book Review

If you know me, you know although I have not had a physical fight in many years, I like to fight. Sorry, I'm probably only 87% saved in many of your eyes. I am sure that I am a descendant of the disciple Peter. So when I saw the cover of this book, I KNEW it was for me. 

It’s no wonder the enemy hates us. Since the beginning of timehe has studied Adam and his descendants. Fight: Winning the Battles That Matter Most by Craig Groeschel. This short read was nothing that I expected. I can honestly say I underestimated itAlthough the author specifically states that this book is for menI can say I walked away with many nuggets to ponder as a woman

As a Princess Warriorlike to fightso the title resonated with me tremendously. Lo and behold I open the bookand Pastor Craig began to share that Yah created men to have the heart of a warrior. Deep inside your DNA structure there is an inherited desire to fight for what’s pure and trueThe Lord has given each and every one of us the divine desire to fight for righteousness
Now everyone faces battlesBut battles that make you dependent on the Lord as the source of your strengthThose are the battles worth fightingThose are the battles that make you come alive

In this bookwe learn that the way we view The Messiah is skewedThe snapshots of Yeshua the Messiah doesn’t allow us fully to appreciate Yahweh's character and the example of YeshuaThis book juxtapositions the lives of Sampson and The Messiah. Although I expected more on the side of the Messiah. 

There are lessons that teach the reader how to fight and win decisively and to identify your strengthas well as your strength in The Creator. He teaches about the power to stand your ground and direct your warlike energy for a cause that is greater than yourself. 

We’re on the frontlines of a major warA warrior is not what you are, but who you are. It’s all about knowing that in your weakness you are made strong in Him. Know the source of your strength. In this bookwe see that the enemy made one of the strongest superheroes in Bible time weak
In detail PastorCraig teaches us the spiritual weapons of a warrior as well as the detail of your armor. Throughout the texthe helps you to create a battle plan against whatever enemy you may be facing

My major takeaway from the book is not to let your legendary accomplishments be overshadowed by your notorious weaknessesWejust like the Messiah, cannot be defined by our accomplishmentsThey are but a mere snapshot of who we are. 
This book was great for holding up a mirror and showing your true reflectionHe details how we overestimate our ability and underestimate our opponentLong gone are the days of self-justification, deflecting the blame onto others and instant gratificationThis book tells that we should not let our emotions lead our actions

It forces the reader to take an honest look at themselves and realize that you are not the masteryou merely work for the teamHow often do we betray the one that loves us because of our selfish desiresFurther reading and inspection tells us that small but pleasurable steps are mere traps that are intended to take you out or at the very least lead you down the road to destructionIt is important to choose your battles wisely for every secret action taken there is a hidden cost associated with it

I would love a version of this book for women. Overall, this is a solid self-reflective read to help equip you for the faith fightIt takes a strong person to keep their cool in the midst of adversity. From reading this bookthe most important lesson I’ve learned is that to die once is easyIt’s when you die to yourself each day that makes you brave because you live to fight another dayNext read: Soul Detox by Pastor Chris as well.